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The Best Episodes of Once and Again

Every episode of Once and Again ranked from best to worst. Let's dive into the Best Episodes of Once and Again!

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  1. #1 Fan Favorite
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    Once and Again Season 1 Episode 7 - The Ex-Files
    9.3/10(64 votes)

    #1 - The Ex-Files

    S1:E7

    Being divorced means Karen and Rick must both go to Eli's weekend basketball tournament, creating some awkward moments for them.

    Director:Unknown
    Writer:Unknown

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  2. Once and Again Season 3 Episode 12 - Gardenia
    9.2/10(49 votes)

    #2 - Gardenia

    S3:E12

    A tragic accident shakes Karen from her deep depression and sets her up for the toughest battle of her life. This makes Eli and Jessie learn the hard way that their parents are more fragile than they'd thought.

    Directors:Edward Zwick, Marshall Herskovitz
    Writer:Unknown

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  3. Once and Again Season 3 Episode 13 - Falling in Place
    9.2/10(46 votes)

    #3 - Falling in Place

    S3:E13

    Jessie's anxiety and guilt about her mom's slow recovery causes tension with every member of the family, especially Lily. Meanwhile, Eli is in denial about the seriousness of his mother's condition.

    Director:Eric Stoltz
    Writer:Unknown

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  4. Once and Again Season 2 Episode 6 - Food for Thought
    9.1/10(31 votes)

    #4 - Food for Thought

    S2:E6

    Jesse is taken to a psychiatrist to find out why she isn't eating. Karen's firm is hired to oppose the building of Miles' building -- the one Rick is designing.

    Director:Edward Zwick
    Writers:Marshall Herskovitz, Edward Zwick

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  5. Once and Again Season 3 Episode 8 - The Sex Show
    9.1/10(30 votes)

    #5 - The Sex Show

    S3:E8

    Grace finds an ""adult magazine"" in their home recycling bin. This leads to a whole ""will you talk to Eli about this?"" talk coming from Lily to Rick. Rick is amazed at Sam's continued inability to be with only one woman at a time. Judy and Sam have yet another awkward conversation, this time at a newsstand. Judy later confesses to Sam while having lunch that she can't kiss him because she wouldn't stop once she started. Lily worries that Rick isn't as interested in her now that they're married. Rick confides to Sam that he thinks the same thing about Lily. Karen and Judy go out to a bar/club. Karen isn't sure she wants to be there in the first place. She meets a man there, and feels guilty when she ends up spending the night at his place. Tad makes Jesse uncomfortable at his party. Lily tells Rick that she doesn't necessarily WANT sex, but rather just to BE with him and not have his mind a million miles away. Judy and Sam have their usual ""we can't be together but we have to

    Director:Dan Lerner
    Writer:Unknown

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  6. Once and Again Season 3 Episode 14 - The Gay-Straight Alliance
    9.1/10(83 votes)

    #6 - The Gay-Straight Alliance

    S3:E14

    Grace pursues her teacher and Jessie develops an attraction for her friend Katie.

    Director:Patrick R. Norris
    Writer:Maggie Friedman

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  7. Once and Again Season 1 Episode 1 - Pilot
    9.0/10(55 votes)

    #7 - Pilot

    S1:E1

    Lily Manning, separated from her husband, and Rick Sammler, divorced for 3 years, meet by chance when her daughter, Grace, injures her ankle in a soccer game. They go out on a date, and are instantly attracted to each other.

    Director:Edward Zwick
    Writers:Marshall Herskovitz, Edward Zwick

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  8. Once and Again Season 1 Episode 22 - A Door, About to Open
    9.0/10(32 votes)

    #8 - A Door, About to Open

    S1:E22

    Lily says that the kids in the two families should meet. So they schedule a night for that. Zoe is concerned about the environment. Grace again has conflicting feelings about Eli. Jennifer reveals to Grace that Cassidy is cheating on Eli. Grace is hesitant about telling Eli this information. Two of Cassidy's friends, Rachel and Lisa, warn Grace not to tell Eli what's going on (or else!). Naomi starts a book group and invites Karen, instead of Lily to be in the group because she feels that she and Lily have been drifting apart. Miles lets it be known to Rick that he doesn't want David involved on his project. Work pressures threaten to unravel Lily's plans for the meeting and they leave Rick on edge. Judy and Karen have a heart-to-heart in the bookstore about their two families. Eli finds out for himself that Cassidy's been cheating on him. Pressure from Miles forces Rick to cancel the dinner. A passage from the book the group is reading makes everything clear to Lily and Rick and Karen

    Director:Dan Lerner
    Writer:Unknown

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  9. Once and Again Season 1 Episode 4 - Liars and Other Strangers
    8.9/10(35 votes)

    #9 - Liars and Other Strangers

    S1:E4

    After meeting Rick, Judy expresses to Lily her misgivings about Lily's blossoming relationship with him.

    Director:Ron Lagomarsino
    Writer:Unknown

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  10. Once and Again Season 2 Episode 21 - Moving On
    8.9/10(22 votes)

    #10 - Moving On

    S2:E21

    Rick and his kids start to move their stuff to Lily's and Lily gets a call to sign the divorce papers. Carla tells Eli that she's not going back home because she's convinced that her parents hate her. So Eli asks Grace to ask Lily about staying at Lily's house. Eli gets his reply from the University of Illinois about admittance, and it's not good. Lily's hesitant about Carla staying with them. Eil tells his dad about the letter, at the dinner table, and neither one of them is happy now. Carla is worried that her plans to travel in Europe in the summer might not happen. Lily discovers medicine missing from her cabinet. Suspecting Carla, she goes to Carla's bag and finds them. Carla confesses to Rick about the pills. Lily goes to visit with Carla's stepmother and finds out some reasons for her problems. Carla tells Eli, in the middle of school, that she is leaving town immediately for Portland, Oregon. Eli says he wants to go with her. They plan to meet at the bus station that night. Ric

    Director:Unknown
    Writer:Unknown

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  11. Once and Again Season 3 Episode 7 - Chaos Theory
    8.9/10(31 votes)

    #11 - Chaos Theory

    S3:E7

    Lily and Karen both have unrealistic expectations for Thanksgiving celebrations. So naturally, nothing goes as planned. The lighting board at the theater goes out, so rehearsal is postponed. Lily does all the cooking herself after the kids are all busy. The pipes underneath the sink rust out, so that messes things up further. Judy doesn't want to be at dinner if Sam is coming (via Rick's invitation). Disagreement over building plans leads to Rick and Sam working on Thanksgiving, which upsets Lily even more. Karen is depressed about not having anyone to celebrate Thanksgiving with. She cancels her dinner plans with friends and stays at home in her nightgown all day. In a moment of reflection, she wonders if she's ever been happy, or just making sure everyone else is happy. The theater janitor kicks them out, so the play rehearsal is moved to Lily's house. She even fills in for one of the students. Jesse ends up walking home from the theater. Not realizing his mom was still ho

    Director:James Eckhouse
    Writer:Unknown

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  12. Once and Again Season 3 Episode 9 - Tough Love
    8.9/10(60 votes)

    #12 - Tough Love

    S3:E9

    When Eli loses his job and Grace's teacher questions her acting, they both learn the hard way that real self-confidence can be one of life's toughest accomplishments. Both learn that tough love can be a powerful motivator.

    Director:Unknown
    Writer:Maggie Friedman

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  13. Once and Again Season 1 Episode 9 - Outside Hearts
    8.8/10(31 votes)

    #13 - Outside Hearts

    S1:E9

    While Lily is at a convention, Judy allows Grace (and Rick and Karen allow Eli), to go to a party that ends up with bad consequences.

    Director:Todd Field
    Writer:Alexa Junge

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  14. Once and Again Season 1 Episode 15 - The Mystery Dance
    8.8/10(30 votes)

    #14 - The Mystery Dance

    S1:E15

    Rick and Lily begin to mend their relationship. Judy meets a man who might fulfill her dreams.

    Director:Dan Lerner
    Writer:Unknown

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  15. Once and Again Season 1 Episode 19 - Cat-In-Hat
    8.8/10(32 votes)

    #15 - Cat-In-Hat

    S1:E19

    Karen pushes herself far beyond her comfort zone when her involvement with Leo becomes more serious. Eli plays his parents against each other in order to get into a bar to see his friends' band play. He gets in trouble when he sees his mother, and she sees him, there. Rick finds out that Karen said no and Eli didn't tell him that, getting Eli in trouble with Rick as well.

    Director:Claudia Weill
    Writer:Unknown

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  16. Once and Again Season 2 Episode 3 - I Can't Stand Up For Falling Down
    8.8/10(25 votes)

    #16 - I Can't Stand Up For Falling Down

    S2:E3

    Parental pressure bears down on Eli to get his act together for college. However, Eli wants to form a music group.

    Director:Peter Horton
    Writer:Unknown

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  17. Once and Again Season 2 Episode 16 - Aaron's Gettin' Better
    8.8/10(28 votes)

    #17 - Aaron's Gettin' Better

    S2:E16

    Aaron returns for an extended stay and impresses everyone with his improvement. Grace and Spencer go back to the restaurant to write about their experience there, but Spencer gets nervous (because he was scared then) and goes home. The voices that have haunted Aaron for so long return at dinner and he freaks out. Shelley returns and says that despite the dinner outburst, he is getting better.

    Director:Unknown
    Writer:Unknown

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  18. Once and Again Season 1 Episode 2 - Let's Spend The Night Together
    8.7/10(37 votes)

    #18 - Let's Spend The Night Together

    S1:E2

    Rick and Lily ponder taking their relationship to the next level.

    Director:Marshall Herskovitz
    Writers:Marshall Herskovitz, Edward Zwick

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  19. Once and Again Season 2 Episode 4 - Feast or Famine
    8.7/10(28 votes)

    #19 - Feast or Famine

    S2:E4

    It's Thanksgiving and that means both the Sammler's and Manning's get together for dinner, whether they want to be there or not. It turns out that the two mothers get along quite well. It's Rick and his mom that have issues. She questions whether Rick knows that his children aren't doing as well as he would like to think. Barbara sees her son Aaron for the first time since Phil's funeral.

    Director:Claudia Weill
    Writers:Marshall Herskovitz, Edward Zwick

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  20. Once and Again Season 3 Episode 5 - Destiny Turns On The Radio
    8.7/10(29 votes)

    #20 - Destiny Turns On The Radio

    S3:E5

    A boy in the play school play asks Jesse out. Grace is less than happy with the news, because she thought that the boy was flirting with her during rehearsal. Karen is upset that Rick didn't left her out of the loop on this. Les takes over a talk show after the host leaves following an argument between the two. He asks for Lily's opinion on a call (while on the air), which leads to her taking over the show that night, and a once-a-week gig after that. Rick and Lily argue about her discussing Jesse's ""date"" when it hasn't been decided if he'll let her go. Grace thinks about quitting the play (over her sorta-feelings for Tad and the whole Tad-Jesse thing), but that's not what she tells Mr. Dmitri. He convinces her to stay. Grace is irate that Lily offered to loan Jesse Lily's pearl necklace when she wouldn't let Grace borrow it earlier. Grace is starting to think that Lily likes her stepdaughter Jesse more than her. Karen accuses Lily of using Jesse's personal life for radio ""mat

    Director:Unknown
    Writer:Unknown

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  21. Once and Again Season 3 Episode 17 - Experience Is the Teacher
    8.7/10(47 votes)

    #21 - Experience Is the Teacher

    S3:E17

    The prospect that Grace may be romantically involved with her creative-writing teacher troubles Lily, infuriates Jake, and imperils the career of the instructor.

    Director:Matt Shakman
    Writer:Maggie Friedman

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  22. Once and Again Season 3 Episode 19 - Chance of a Lifetime
    8.7/10(45 votes)

    #22 - Chance of a Lifetime

    S3:E19

    Rick and Lily face more life-altering decisions when he is offered a major architectural position in Australia and she is offered a chance to take her Chicago-based radio show into national syndication. The Series Finale Episode concludes with this show's traditionaly black and white breaking of the fourth wall but this time, its the actors and not the characters as they speak about the realtionships formed amid the cast and what the show has meant to them.

    Director:Dan Lerner
    Writers:Marshall Herskovitz, Edward Zwick

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  23. Once and Again Season 1 Episode 10 - Thanksgiving
    8.6/10(27 votes)

    #23 - Thanksgiving

    S1:E10

    Lily's father decides to invite Jake to Thanksgiving at Lily's house against her wishes. Her father has difficulty in deciding whose side of the divorce to support.

    Director:Claudia Weill
    Writer:Unknown

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  24. Once and Again Season 1 Episode 12 - The Gingerbread House
    8.6/10(32 votes)

    #24 - The Gingerbread House

    S1:E12

    Lily tells Jake she wants a divorce, and tells Rick about her one-night stand with Jake. Rick can't forgive her, putting their future in jeopardy.

    Director:Dan Lerner
    Writer:Unknown

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  25. Once and Again Season 1 Episode 18 - Strangers and Brothers
    8.6/10(27 votes)

    #25 - Strangers and Brothers

    S1:E18

    Aaron proves to be a source of comfort and renewal for the Manning family; Lily gains ground in the divorce proceedings.

    Director:Marshall Herskovitz
    Writer:Unknown

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Best Episodes Summary

"The Ex-Files" is the best rated episode of "Once and Again". It scored 9.3/10 based on 64 votes. Directed by Unknown and written by Unknown, it aired on 11/2/1999. This episode scored 0.1 points higher than the second highest rated, "Gardenia".