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Sex and the City S4E3 — Defining Moments

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Sex and the City•Season 4•Episode 3

Defining Moments

7.2/10 · 883 votesJun 10, 200128 min

Ranked #17 of 18 in Season 4•−0.4 vs season avg

Carrie meets a jazz musician while on a pseudo-date with Big. Miranda tries to get more comfortable using the bathroom in front of her date. Charlotte is dismayed that Trey only wants to have sex in places where they can get caught. Samantha meets Maria,

Directed byAllen Coulter

Written byJenny Bicks

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Sarah Jessica Parker

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Carrie Bradshaw

Kim Cattrall

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Samantha Jones

Cynthia Nixon

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Miranda Hobbes

Kristin Davis

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Charlotte York

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Allen Coulter

Allen Coulter

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Nicole Avril

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Wendey Stanzler

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John Thomas

John Thomas

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Episode Summary

"Defining Moments" is episode 3 of Sex and the City season 4. It scored 7.2/10 from 883 votes, ranking #17 of 18 episodes this season (season average 7.6). Directed by Allen Coulter and written by Jenny Bicks, it aired on June 10, 2001.

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