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Grey's Anatomy S9E3 — Love the One You're With
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Grey's Anatomy•Season 9•Episode 3

Love the One You're With

8.2/10 · 1,299 votesOct 18, 201243 min

Ranked #9 of 24 in Season 9•matches the season avg

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The survivors from the crash are asked to make an almost impossible decision that will affect the rest of their lives. Meanwhile, tension grows between Jackson and April after they're forced to work together, and Alex tries to restrain himself with one of the interns.

Directed byDebbie Allen
Written byZoanne Clack
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Ellen Pompeo

Ellen Pompeo

Meredith Grey

Chandra Wilson

Chandra Wilson

Miranda Bailey

Sandra Oh

Sandra Oh

Cristina Yang

Justin Chambers

Justin Chambers

Alex Karev

James Pickens Jr.

James Pickens Jr.

Richard Webber

Patrick Dempsey

Patrick Dempsey

Derek Shepherd

Kevin McKidd

Kevin McKidd

Owen Hunt

Sara Ramirez

Sara Ramirez

Callie Torres

Jessica Capshaw

Jessica Capshaw

Arizona Robbins

Jesse Williams

Jesse Williams

Jackson Avery

Sarah Drew

Sarah Drew

April Kepner

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Z

Zoanne Clack

Writer

Debbie Allen

Debbie Allen

Director

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Episode Summary

"Love the One You're With" is episode 3 of Grey's Anatomy season 9. It scored 8.2/10 from 1,299 votes, ranking #9 of 24 episodes this season (season average 8.2). Directed by Debbie Allen and written by Zoanne Clack, it aired on October 18, 2012.

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